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Saturday, June 30, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Eliminate any Risk and Your Clients will Buy from ...
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Eliminate any Risk and Your Clients will Buy from ...: The greatest challenge facing anyone, who needs to purchase anything, is the risk that the product or service they will buy, will not meet...
Eliminate any Risk and Your Clients will Buy from You with Confidence
The greatest challenge facing anyone, who needs to purchase anything,
is the risk that the product or service they will buy, will not meet their
needs. If that is the single biggest obstacle stopping anyone buying from you,
then simply eliminate the risk and you will significantly increase your new
client acquisition and multiply your revenue. I am in the consulting and
professional speaking business. It is often difficult for the leader of a large
corporate to invest a significant amount of money into my fee and risk, not
being satisfied or worse, being disappointed. The best way to secure the
business is thus to remove the risk to the client completely. I offer to
consult, offer training or present a key note address and if they are not 100 %
satisfied, they do not have to pay me a cent.
I am sure that you are in a similar position, where there is
often a great divide between you and your prospective buyers. You know that
your product or service is absolutely perfect and will meet or exceed your
prospects expectations. You are completely certain that once your client gets
to experience what you have to offer, they too will see the fantastic benefits
it offers. The challenge for the customer though, is that for you to open the
door and show your them how great your product or service is, they will need to
take a risk and as you know, people are risk averse. So most people will not
take the risk and offer you the opportunity to share your great product or
service with them.
Build
Mutually Beneficial Relationships
As you are in the business of building mutually beneficial
relationships with your clients, both you and your client lose, if they do not
have the opportunity to see what your product or service can do for their
business. The secret to open the door and to start to build the partnerships
and relationships you want with your prospects is to eliminate the risk
completely. Instead of expecting them to work with you, with blind faith, where
they take all the risk, eliminate the risk completely. In other words show them
how much you believe in your product or service, put your money where your
mouth is and offer to supply it free of charge, if it does not meet their
expectations and needs.
You know that you cannot build mutually beneficial relationships
and form lasting partnerships with your clients, unless you are authentic, believe
100 % in what you are selling and know that what you have to sell will
eliminate pain and exceed the needs and expectations of your clients or new partners.
You therefore know that what you have to sell is fantastic, so have the courage
of your convictions and show it by removing any risk to your client.
Accept
all the Risk
I was involved in on-going
negotiations with a large manufacturer and after months of negotiation, it
looked that, even though I knew my service would eliminate a whole lot of pain
for them, I was going to lose the deal. To secure the deal and to begin the
process of building the relationship, I asked the CEO what she felt the risk
was and how could we eliminate the risk. She felt that if we wasted time on
doing the necessary research, went through the training process and they did
not see any positive results, she would look bad and have incurred a big
expense for nothing.
I immediately eliminated the risk completely and offered to do
the research, offer the training and deliver a final keynote address at their
annual conference. I told her that, should she not be 100 % satisfied with the
results, I would offer the entire service free of charge. By eliminating the
risk and showing complete confidence in my work, I gained a great new client
and have built a really great partnership with this company. We both benefit
from this great on-going relationship.
The secret to create sustainable success and to ensure that
people get to know’ like and trust what you have to offer. Is to firstly
believe in your product or service, know what it can do for your clients and
then remove any risk to your client. By following this simple strategy, you
will very quickly grow your business and achieve the sales success you desire.
Friday, June 29, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Practical Sales Tools and Techniques, to Support y...
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Practical Sales Tools and Techniques, to Support y...: Building relationships and long term mutually partnerships with your clients, is the best way to, get your prospects and clients to know, ...
Practical Sales Tools and Techniques, to Support your Sales Efforts
Building
relationships and long term mutually partnerships with your clients, is the
best way to, get your prospects and clients to know, like and trust you. It
also changes the relationship dynamic, when you deal with them, on this level.
They are no longer in the power position, with you merely taking instruction from
them. You become an asset to their business, an additional tool, which will
serve them and their business. When you work from this modality, they know that
you have their best interests at heart and will only offer them the best value
for their business. This all sounds great, but how do you start to build this
relationship, how do you begin the journey to build a mutually beneficial
relationship with them?
As you know when
you meet with a prospective client for the first time, the tension levels are
fairly high. This is most certainly not the time to sit with your feet braced
firmly against the desk, regurgitating the benefits or features of your product
or service. This is the stage for small talk and an opportunity for you to start
to build rapport with them and to begin the process of developing a good
business relationship, which shows your commitment to support them.
Past, Present and Future
We all love to
speak about is ourselves. When I approach any new decision maker, I encourage
them to speak about themselves, by using the past, present and future as a
focal point for the conversation. As I walk into the decision maker’s office, I
look around and immediately look the decision maker in the eye, saying “Wow it
is amazing to see that you have this amazing position with such an incredible
company. How did you get started?” This immediately breaks the ice, as nobody
has asked them that question for years. The decision maker is obviously very
proud of what they have achieved and how well they have done in the company. I
have heard many different versions, but they usually go something like this “eighteen
years ago I started out as a filing clerk and I worked my way up…..
The secret to start
building any relationship is to listen twice as much as you speak. Simply sit
back and listen intently, showing real enthusiasm and authentic interest.
People will very quickly see through you if you are merely feigning interest and
pretending to care. I have learned an incredible amount of really valuable
lessons, by listening to people’s success stories, so there is real value to be
had by listening and learning from people. You can glean a massive amount of
valuable information from the decision maker during their chat about their
success journey.
The next question I
ask is about the present situation. I would ask a question like “Could you tell
me about the current situation and how you have managed to achieve so much
success? At this point, the decision maker will disclose even more valuable
information, by telling you something like “I have 25 people reporting to me,
we have plans to expand our production facility and have plans to open three new
branches…… Again sit back, listen and make mental notes. The decision maker is
not only having a chance to speak about their own favourite subject, but they
are supplying you with valuable information, which you can use to find
innovative ways to show the decision maker how your product or service can
serve them and their business. I cannot stress
enough, how important it is to ensure that you show real interest in what the
decision maker has to say.
The next way to
lead the conversation is towards the future. This is probably the most
important part of the conversation. Ask a question like “Where do you see
yourself and your company, five or ten years from now?” This is your
opportunity to sit back, show real interest in what they have to say and at the
same time be on the lookout for buying signals. They may say things like we are
looking to modernise our production facilities, grow our sales, reduce costs or
improve product quality. Listen intently and just make mental notes of all the
possible opportunities for your products or services to help support the
decision maker, achieve these outcomes.
Research, innovate
and be Creative
This information
will serve you going forward and help you to build and cement the mutually
beneficial relationship, which you are attempting to build with them. After the
meeting, record your thoughts and any valuable information, which may help you
later, to develop the relationship. I have an electronic sales recording
system, where I carefully record this information immediately after the
meeting. I then use this information to research the client and explore actual company
results or outstanding achievements, related to their tenure at the company. I
record this in my electronic sales recording system, for use at the next
meeting with the decision maker.
Remember the
emotions expressed by the decision maker, while they were talking about the
past, present and future. Those emotions will help guide you towards an
innovative way of showing the decision maker how your product or service will
serve them and their business. As you know logic makes people think, but it is
emotion which makes people act. Always focus on the decision makers emotions
when developing your sales strategy.
After the meeting explore
all opportunities you have identified in the meeting where your product or
service can support them, by either eliminating some pain or helping them to
better achieve any desired outcome. This process requires you to be a little creative
and to innovate. It is crucial to stop thinking like a traditional sales
person. Look for innovative ways of supporting them and helping them in the
long term. Focus on building a mutually beneficial long term relationship.
Forget about trying to make a quick short term sale and focus on how you can
utilise your product or service to help them in a meaningful way. I hate this
old cliché, but “think out of the box”.
Always look for
ways to serve your clients and to add real value to them and their business. The
decision maker is going to use their emotions to buy and will only buy from someone
they know like and trust and who will add real value to them and their
business. Keep this as the focal point, during all interactions with your
clients.
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Manage your Activities, Within your Available Time...
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Manage your Activities, Within your Available Time...: Trying to manage time, which is relentless and never stops, is as effective as shouting at an approaching tornado and telling it to go the...
Manage your Activities, Within your Available Time
Trying
to manage time, which is relentless and never stops, is as effective as shouting
at an approaching tornado and telling it to go the other way. We cannot ever
manage time, but with foresight and planning, we can choose to allocate our
time more effectively. Money is infinite and we can earn more money at any
time. Time on the other hand, when viewed from our current linear perspective,
is most certainly finite. Should something so valuable, not be invested as
effectively as possible every day, to earn you the best return possible? I want
to share a few really powerful and practical tips with you today, on how utilise
your time as efficiently, effectively and productively as possible every day.
Activity Log
An
extensive study done in the USA, found that people who utilised an activity log
and recorded their activities for one week, all felt like their productivity
and free time doubled. Using an activity log is really simple. You create a
daily log sheet, broken up into hours, with a few lines below each hour to
record your activities during each hour of the day. As each hour passes, spend
a few minutes recording how you spent the last hour. Do not analyse the data,
you are collecting. Simply think about what you did and record your findings on
your log page. At the end of the week look back over the seven pages and analyse
the data. Look for periods of productive and non-productive time.
One
of the greatest benefits, which will come from this exercise, is one of
awareness. After completing this exercise for seven days, switch your thinking
around for the next week. Before each hour starts, look at the activities you
will be carrying out and ask the question is this most effective and valuable use
of my time?
As the week progresses, you will be far less
likely to waste any time reading emails every time your smart phone bleeps or
shooting the breeze with work colleges. You will learn the art of utilising
your time as effectively and efficiently as possible. Over time, ensuring that
each hour is invested as wisely as possible will become one of your new success
habits. You won’t need to consciously think about it. You will just unconsciously
use your time as productively as possible.
Planning Your Day the Night Before
Armed
with the information gained after conducting the week long activity logging
process, you will know the time of day when you are most or least productive.
This will give you an opportunity to understand your daily rhythms, so when you
are “Planning your Day the Night Before”
you are able to allocate the most difficult tasks, to be carried out during
your most productive time every day.
Sit
at the end of the day or as I like to call it “Done for the Day”. At a time chosen the night before during your
daily planning session, you decide, when you will stop all work related activity,
for the day. This is a time you give yourself permission to switch off from
work related activities and to recharge your batteries. Ten minutes prior to
reaching your done for the day time slot, you start your daily planning
session, in which you plan how you will invest your time the next day.
The
best way to start your planning session is to first review the day, which has
just passed. Explore all the activities; you had allocated yourself, to carry
out during your planning session the night before. Reward yourself for all your
successes that day. Even if that means you just sit, smile and feel the glow of
satisfaction, for a job well done. If there are any tasks, which you were
unable to complete that day, for whatever reason, these must be allocated, during
your planning session, to be performed in the first available time slot the
next day.
You
will then explore any meetings you have and any priority tasks you must
complete. Armed with this information and knowing when your most productive
time in the day is. You will set aside time slots, which are cast in stone, to
carry out your daily priority tasks. The secret to make these time slots work
for you and to ensure that you don’t keep reaching the end of the day, without
having completed all your priority task, is to not allow any distractions or interruptions
during this crucial priority time, during the day. You would not allow any interruptions
during a meeting with a client, to disrupt proceedings. Treat your daily time
slots where you carry out your top priority activities, the same way.
Do Not Disturb
The
reason most people get to the end of the day and they feel exhausted, but they
still feel like they got nothing done, is that they allow constant interruptions
during their day. They never remain focused on completing single priority tasks.
Set aside time for meetings, handling emails, time when people can pop in to
discuss things etc. The real secret to mastering the use of your time every day
is to tell people when you are available and when they can only reach you in an
absolute emergency.
During
those priority task times, close your door, switch off your mobile phone and
focus all your energy on completing those priority tasks. When you follow this
simple process of allocating time slots to complete your top priority tasks
every day and you remove any possibility of distraction from the equation, you
will effortlessly complete all your priorities every day and will start to see
incredible results show up in your life and business.
Earl
Nightingale was quoted as saying that he can tell exactly how successful
someone will be, purely by looking at the daily agenda. Are you satisfied with
how you are utilising your time every day? Is your daily agenda, going to
deliver the level of success you want or is it the major reason why you are
trapped in a life of average? Introduce these few daily disciplines into your
life and you will see a remarkable improvement in your outcomes this year.
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Become a Sales Super Star
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Become a Sales Super Star: Selling is an art form or should I rather say that it is an on-going process of fostering relationships with people, who have a need or ch...
Become a Sales Super Star
Selling
is an art form or should I rather say that it is an on-going process of fostering
relationships with people, who have a need or challenge, you can solve, by
supplying them with the product or service you offer. Selling is most certainly
never about telling, or a single event. It is a process, which develops daily
over time, never in a day, by fostering mutually beneficial relationships with
people, who you view as partners. When you view your clients or prospects as
partners or potential partners, your approach to them and the way you will
interact with them is very different to a traditional sales person, who is
sitting opposite a “BUYER” with their feet braced against the desk, desperate
to make a sale at all costs.
The
sales professional, who approaches every client or prospect, with a view to
forming a mutually beneficial partnership with them, will be constantly looking
for ways to add value to their partner. Anyone who is entering a partnership
with someone else is always looking for ways to foster good relationships, to
support them and to build trust with them. You can never be authentic and
foster the meaningful relationships you need, if you do not believe 100 % in
your product or service. You will be very quickly found out, if you try to sell
something you do not completely support or believe in yourself.
As
you know your new partners will only buy from people they know, like and trust
and they believe, is adding real and meaningful value to them or their
business. When your intentions are not honourable and you try to pretend that
you have your clients and prospects best interests at heart, but in fact you
are only there to try to close a sale. You will be found out. We have an
inherent ability to read peoples body language, their tone and pitch of voice
and the cadence and volume of their speech while they talk. Your client will
very quickly see through any façade or false intentions.
Plan your Sales Calls
Just
like anything in life, you need to plan every sales call or relationship
building process, before the meeting. Yes you can wing it and walk into the
meeting unprepared, and in some cases may even get away with a lack of preparation.
Attempting to go into a sales meeting with your client or partner unprepared,
is like allowing yourself to be a paper cup blowing around with no direction in
a car park. You will just get shunted around in the meeting at the whim of your
client or partner. They will be in control and you will be in a weakened
position, where you will be forced to tell to try to sell. Have a clear
intention or purpose for every sales call.
Change the Way You Look at Your Clients
If
you want anything in your world to change in an instant, then simply change the
way you look at it and it will immediately change. As soon as you are able to
make the shift in your mind, away from viewing yourself as a sales person, who
desperately needs to sell your wares, and instead you see yourself as a value
adder. Someone who has a fantastic product or service, which can be included
into someone’s life or business, to remove a challenge they currently face or
to satisfy a need they may have. You equip yourself to become a relationship and
partnership builder. Approach every client or prospect with a mind-set of let’s
go do it, rather than I am here to sell you something, now you go do it. See
the relationship you are developing, as a way of doing something with and for your
client or partner.
As
soon as you change your philosophy and truly believe in what you have to sell
and you authentically believe, that it is a real value adder within your partner’s
life or business. You are ready to start the journey to become a relationship
builder and partnership developer. Your intent will always be crystal clear,
when you work with any client. They will see right through any façade you may try
to create. When you are authentic and you always act with your clients or
partners best interests at heart, you will build long term relationships with
people who will get to know, like and trust you and obviously buy from Dare to
explore the limits of your potential and awaken your full sales potential. It
is time to up your game and to set your sales giant free. Unlock your hidden
sales super star and finally make the shift away from old school hard selling,
towards new age relationship building and sales influence, as an effective
selling strategyyou.
.
As you build relationships with your new partners you will be equipped to use
their positive emotions to show them how your product or service will add real
and lasting value to their business.
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Managers - How to Motivate Your Employees
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Managers - How to Motivate Your Employees: One of the greatest challenges facing many businesses today is finding ways to motivate and inspire their team members every day. This tas...
Managers - How to Motivate Your Employees
One of the greatest
challenges facing many businesses today is finding ways to motivate and inspire
their team members every day. This task is growing even more difficult, due to
the turbulent economic conditions; we are facing and the ever increasing pace
of change all around us. I hear many of my clients asking the question, “When are things going to return to normal”?
Well I am afraid to say this is the new normal, change and al the uncertainty,
which is associated with it, is here to stay. The rapid pace of change is not
showing any signs of slowing down at all In fact all indicators are pointing towards
the pace of change accelerating even further in the foreseeable future.
If we as business leaders,
want to stay in the game and flourish, going forward, we need to find ways, to
not only work within the changing and shifting environment we face, but also to
be open to search for and discover ways of using change, as a tool for
discovering new opportunities for our businesses. Despite the constant change
all around us, it has never been more important to create a crystal clear
picture of exactly what you want for your business, organisation or team.
Remember, vision is your compass or the tool, which offers you guidance and direction.
So when faced with constantly changing conditions, circumstances and new
innovations, you will very quickly become overwhelmed, if you do not have a
clear picture of where you want to take your business, organisation or team.
This clarity of vision and
purpose, will equip you to explore any changed circumstances, changed market conditions
or even new innovations and give you the benefit of foresight. You will be able
to see how these new conditions, can assist you and your team to accelerate
your progress, improve your performance, whilst still inexorably moving towards
achieving your vision and goals. Without a clear vision and a set of dynamic
strategic plans, any leader, no matter how experienced and capable, will
quickly become overwhelmed and be unable to continue to positively influence
their team members to perform at their optimal levels. The leader will be
unable to be the example, they need to be to motivate and inspire their team
members, to perform at their best.
Communicate
Your Vision
It astounds me how many
organisations, have a great vision for the future, but it is one of the best
kept secrets. The only way to ensure that you are moving in the direction of
your vision and will be equipped to achieve your organisational goals, is to
ensure that everyone in your team or teams, knows, what the overall vision of
the organisation is, their individual teams vision and goals and their
individual role in delivering on this vision. When your team members are clear
on what is expected of them and there is no ambiguity around expectations, they
will automatically become more inspired and driven to support their fellow team
members, to achieve the team or organisational vision and goals.
Creating
Your Vision
Commit these to paper, and
ensure that they are clearly and regularly communicated to all stakeholders.
They must be easy to understand and very easy to communicate to all team
members. Remove any ambiguity and keep them as simple as possible. American
Express, for example, who are in the business of providing credit card services
to people all around the world, have a very simple, yet extremely descriptive,
vision statement “Become the worlds most
respected service brand”
This simple and short, yet
very clear vision statement gives their team members, a very simple, yet
profound message about what they want to create in the future. McGraw-Hill Companies,
who publish text books for students have a really inspiring vision statement “Support economic growth and job creation,
by creating a smarter, better world” I know a vision statement like that, would
get me up and inspired in the morning, eager to contribute to the overall
vision of the organisation.
Communicate
your vision
Once you have invested the
time to create a vision statement, which resonates with you and the picture you
have for your business, organisation or team is clear for all to see. Ensure
that this is regularly communicated to all stakeholders. The best way to get
all stakeholders to take ownership of the vision and internalise it, is to
ensure that they are involved in the creation of the vision. When people feel
included in the process and they have a stake in the creation of the vision for
the future, they will be far more inspired to support you and the overall
vision of the team or organisation.
It is also crucial to
regularly communicate your vision, mission and goals to your team members, as
often as feasible. This can be achieved by communicating the message at the
start or end of every meeting, sending our weekly vision messages to your team
via email, text messages or even small promotional business cards. The more
creative you are and the more often each team member thinks about, understands
and commits to carry out their part in delivering on the vision, the greater
will be the success and the overall motivation within the team.
Shift
the Way you Look at Things and the Things you Look at will Change
When your team members are
equipped with a clear understanding of the overall vision for their team or organisation
and they completely understand their individual role on delivering on this, they
are able to make a crucial shift to the way they see everything around them. As
they are clear about where they are going, things that used to be “IN” their way and as such, they were
constantly looking for ways to get through them, almost as if by magic shift
and are now “ON” their way. When
anything is on your way, overwhelming circumstances, become manageable and the
same experience that was in your way before, now becomes part of the success journey
and your team members are able to discover what they can learn form or get from
any experience.
This subtle, but crucial
shift will see the motivation and inspiration levels within your organisation
go through the roof. Inspiring and motivating your team, is not an event, it is
a process, which when carried out daily, will result in far more satisfied, fulfilled
team members, who are driven to help their organisation achieve the results
they want.
Monday, June 25, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Stop Selling and Build Mutually Beneficial Relatio...
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Stop Selling and Build Mutually Beneficial Relatio...: Anyone who has built a camp fire knows that starting a fire and getting it going is quite difficult. You need to build a small pile of dry...
Stop Selling and Build Mutually Beneficial Relationships with your Clients
Anyone
who has built a camp fire knows that starting a fire and getting it going is
quite difficult. You need to build a small pile of dry kindling and then apply
some sort of spark to it, to get it burning. Once this small fire is burning,
you slowly add more dry wood to the fire, to gradually allow the critical mass
of the fire to grow, rather than to sputter out and die. The same is true, when
you have a new business idea and it catches fire within you. Take action
immediately and ensure that you slowly add critical mass, daily action, to the
idea to keep it alive and eventually, turn into your new reality.
Deciding
to grow your sales or attract a new prospect, to your business, is simply a
spark of inspiration. The challenge you face though, is to not allow the flames
of that inspiration to die. Take action immediately and research where you can
find the most qualified prospects. Invest time and energy to explore and
research each of them thoroughly. Discover as much useful, relevant information
relating to them and their business as possible. The art of selling requires
you to partner with them, where you work to develop mutually beneficial
relationships with your clients and prospects, rather than simply selling something
to them. The only way to completely understand the needs of your prospects and clients
is to thoroughly research them and to work to understand their needs and any
challenges they may be experiencing.
Once
you have a handle on any difficulties or pain they may be experiencing, you are
equipped to partner with them, to offer them a mutually beneficial solution,
which will solve their challenges. This then shifts the relationships, which
you have with your clients, from one of buyer and seller. Where the buyer calls
the shots and the poor seller, meekly takes orders and negotiates the lowest
price, to secure the business, to one where you become a partner, an additional
resource in their business. This way of partnering with your clients, allows
them to get to know, like and trust you and they view you and your product or
service as a valuable tool in their business.
As
your knowledge of your clients and prospects grows, and you get to understand
their business better, you will become an additional (FREE) resource in their
business. They will no longer view you or your product and service as a commodity;
they will see you and your product or service, as a crucial part of their
business. Of course it is far more difficult to study a business, get to know
the idiosyncrasies of each business, its markets and its needs, difficulties
and challenges, than it is to “smouse” your product as a commodity and
negotiate and sell just on price. The benefit of getting to know your clients
and their markets is immense and are well worth the extra effort.
Use your Vision as Your Anchor
The
key to make this selling process work for you, is to first create a very clear
vision of exactly what you want and then to use this as your anchor point. Stay
focused on why you are investing all the extra effort into researching and
understanding your clients and their businesses. When you have a crystal clear
vision and are clear on your purpose, you will have the drive to stay focused
and will succeed at growing your sales and building mutually beneficial
relationships with your clients.
Commit to do whatever it takes
We
are pleasure seeking and pain avoiding by nature. So the research and work
required to develop partnerships and mutually beneficial relationships with
your clients and prospects, will take you out of your comfort zone, into
unchartered territory. So it is important to focus on the great feeling you
will have in the future, when you are able to become a partner with you
clients, rather than that feeling of just being another sales person, who is
there in an inferior position, to merely take orders. Success is driven by
first being willing to pay the price, “do the research” and then to experience
the promise, “great mutually beneficial relationships with your clients”. I am
not saying that this way of selling is easy. I am however saying it is far more
fulfilling, meaningful and satisfying, to both you and your clients.
Try to remain light hearted
When
the going gets tough and it will, it is easy to become discouraged and
frustrated. Do not allow “REJECTION” or setbacks to discourage you at all. In
fact, know that there is no such thing as rejection. Before you approach a new
client or prospect to buy your product or service, you do not have a sale. If one
of your prospects or clients refuses to buy your product or service, because
they do not see or understand the benefit your product or services offers them
or their business. You still do not have a sale, nothing has changed. Things
only change when they accept your offer, see the benefit of partnering with you
and forming a mutually beneficial relationship with you.
When
a prospect says no to your offer, it does not mean no at all. What it means is
not right now. The way you have described your partnership proposal to them is
not clear, they cannot yet see the benefits to them or their business. Your job
as the relationship builder is to then go back to the drawing board and to find
a better way to explain your offer. You must more clearly define the value you
bring and how that will equate to less pain for them and their business. Work
to become a valuable additional resource to your clients businesses and you
will no longer sell anything; you will become a value adder in your clients
businesses.
Sunday, June 24, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Achieve the Impossible, One Step at a Time
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Achieve the Impossible, One Step at a Time: At some stage in your life, you still dared to dream and you had those grandiose goals and aspirations, to live a life of meaning and fulf...
Achieve the Impossible, One Step at a Time
At
some stage in your life, you still dared to dream and you had those grandiose
goals and aspirations, to live a life of meaning and fulfilment. What killed
that drive and determination in you? Was it because you really were dreaming
the impossible or you just simply did
not have what it took or was it something else altogether? Was it because the
people around you told you that what you wanted to achieve in your life or
business was impossible? Eventually, after hearing that negative talk from
everyone around you, you started to believe them and so you simply gave up on
your dream for your life or business.
There
is only one opinion that matters when it comes to following your heart and
living your dreams. The opinions of everyone around you are nothing more than
feedback from your environment. As you know feedback can be very useful to ensure
that you have considered all the possible challenges, or to help you assess any
knowledge or skills, you may require. It is seldom a reason to kill your dreams
and to accept an average life, with no meaning or fulfilment.
As
you know, if you have ever tried to light a campfire. Nothing will happen until
that small spark hits the kindling. Those small flames, which start to flare
up, in the kindling, will very quickly die out, if you do not add more of the
right type of dry wood to the fire, to help build the fire and add critical
mass to it. If you add huge pieces of wet wood with the bark still on it, the
small fire you have created with the kindling, will be unable to ignite the big
piece of wood and the small fire will quickly die out. The same is true with any new idea or dream
you may have, for your life or business. When that idea catches fire in your
belly, it is important that you take action immediately, you must then keep
adding the right amount daily activity, to this small flame of inspiration, to help
keep the idea alive and to eventually to bring your idea to life.
Take
the Right Type of action
If
you do nothing and you do not take any action at all, those initial flames will
obviously just die out. If on the other hand you rush headlong into attempting
to turn your idea into reality, as soon as possible. You will also kill those
flames of inspiration, as you will feel overwhelmed and quickly move back to
your comfort zone. The simplest example I can offer here is one where someone,
gets all inspired to get fit. So they sign up for a new gym contract. They rush
into the gym and for the first three days, they go every day for an hour of
vigorous exercise. As you know we are a pleasure seeking and pain avoiding
species, so as the level of discomfort increases as we overload our bodies. We
quickly lose interest and return to our comfort zone and almost immediately
stop exercising altogether.
If
that person had thought the process through and instead of rushing headlong into
the gym, every day, they had instead, started slowly. Doing the right type of exercise,
which was fun and enjoyable. Not overtaxing themselves, they would have been
far more likely to keep going to the gym and their new exercise routine would
have eventually become part of the daily routine. If we use this approach, to
achieve any goal we want in our life or business, where we quickly take the
right action, which helps to keep the flame of inspiration burning, and we keep
adding the right activities to our initial action. We will gradually build up
the critical mass we need to sustain our efforts and eventually achieve our
goal.
Sustaining
the Effort
The
second challenge we have when we have a new idea, is to sustain the initial
effort required, to get the idea going, when we do not see any immediate
results. Imagine a hand water pump, with the water level about 3 meters below
the ground. When you prime the pump (add a little water to fill the pump) and
you begin pressing the handle, up and down. You will see no water come out of
the spout, for quite a long time, as the water is slowly pumped from far
beneath the ground and it gradually rises to towards the surface. If you stop
pumping before the water gets to the surface, it will simply just return to the
level it was at, before you started pumping.
This
is how most people tackle any new goal, they start out taking action every day
and as they do not see any progress for a while. They stop taking action,
before the actions they are taking have had time to gather momentum and so they
never get to see the results they desire. In the example of the water pump
above, if the person pushing the lever on the hand pump, kept pushing the lever
long enough, to give the water a chance to start flowing from the spout. It
would take very little effort to keep the water flowing. The same is true for
achieving your goals or turning ideas into something tangible and real. You
need to persevere and keep taking those small actions every day until you see
results. Once the results start to appear, it is really easy to sustain the
effort required.
Imagine
a huge horizontal flywheel, rotating on a vertical shaft. If you grabbed hold
of it and applied force to start the flywheel turning. You would only manage to
move the wheel a fraction. As you continue to apply force to the flywheel it
will slowly, build up momentum, until it is spinning at speed. It is not the
first push or any one push, no matter how big that push may have been, which
allowed that flywheel to build up the speed and momentum it now has. It was the
accumulation of all the small pushes, which added up to make it speed along. Exactly
the same is true for the almost insignificant goal specific actions you will
take every. No single small action is going to result in the success you want.
It is the accumulation of all those almost insignificant actions, over time,
when added together will allow you to succeed.
Achieving
sustainable success is thus the result of taking action, before the idea has
had a chance to fizzle out, to then keep taking small actions daily, to sustain
this flame of inspiration and to use your willpower to sustain these efforts
long enough to actually start seeing results. The biggest secret of all is to
accept that goals are not achieved in a day, but rather daily, with sustained
and determined effort.
Friday, June 22, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Do You Know What You Really Want and Do you Believ...
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Do You Know What You Really Want and Do you Believ...: When you walk into a dark room, you simply reach across, press the light switch on and the darkness disappears. Do you need to attend a mo...
Do You Know What You Really Want and Do you Believe You Can Have It?
When you walk into a dark room, you simply reach across, press the
light switch on and the darkness disappears. Do you need to attend a
motivational talk to inspire you to press the light switch, or do you
procrastinate and contemplate the task, before you actually press the switch? No,
you just press the light switch. I know this is a simplistic example, but what
it illustrates, is the principal that, if you believe with absolute certainty
that any activity will result in the outcome you desire. You will carry out any
task, without the need for any external motivation and you will most certainly
never procrastinate before carrying out that activity ever again.
Get clarity about what you want, invest the time to acquire all the
knowledge and skills you need, to be absolutely certain that you can achieve
it. Once you have this deep rooted belief in your ability to succeed. Carrying
out the daily activities necessary to achieve that goal will become almost effortless.
Believe in yourself, know with certainty that you are on the right path and
that the goal specific activities you are carrying out every day, is steadily
moving you along the path of success and nothing will be able to stop you from
succeeding.
Using the light switch example again: If you walked into the room
and pressed the switch and for some reason the light never came on. The Bulb
was fused, or the power was off or the circuit breaker had tripped. Would you
never press the light switch again, because you had encountered a challenge and
it never worked that one time? The same is true about the actions you take
every day as you move towards the success you desire. There will be times that
you take a specific action and some external factor may have changed and that
action does not result in the outcome you wanted. That is no reason to stop
believing in yourself and to stop taking action.
It is simply an opportunity to look around for the cause, does it
mean you need a little more education or do you need a few new skills, maybe
you need to slow down or speed up a little, are you getting enough rest,
exercise or proper nutrition? Find the tripped circuit breaker, damaged light
bulb or disconnected power supply in your life. Fix whatever is wrong and move
forward. Experiencing challenges on your path toward the success you desire is
never a reason to stop believing in your ability to succeed. It is simply an
opportunity to explore and find out why things are not working like they should
be.
Circuit breakers trip, light bulbs blow and the power sometimes
gets interrupted. That does not mean you must stop pressing the light switch,
when you walk into a dark room, it simply means, that you need to find out why
it is not working. Fix it, and when you press the switch on the next time and
the next, the light will come on. The same is true for your life and business.
Things are going to go wrong, challenges will come your way and things will not
always work out the way you want them to. Simply explore, find what is wrong
and then press on and the action you take will once again deliver the results
or outcomes you want.
Stop harping on your flaws and any temporary failures you may
experience. This negative self-talk is extremely destructive and does not serve
you at all. Simply identify what is wrong, build a plan to fix it and move on. When
the light switch does not work, when you walk into the dark room? Do you go
into a tirade of self-incrimination about, why the bulb blew, do you berate
yourself for hours before changing the bulb. No you search for, and discover
the challenge, do the repair and enjoy the benefit of the light. If you could
learn to apply the same simple process in your life and business, every time
you encounter a challenge or a roadblock. You would very quickly overcome any
roadblock, setback or challenge and almost immediately, get back on track.
Instead of berating yourself and constantly reminding yourself
about your flaws, rather learn to celebrate your successes and achievements.
Constantly look at your skill and ability. Look at all the things you are doing
today, which you were unable to do a week, month or year ago. Celebrate your
progress and use this progress to help keep you inspired. Give yourself regular
feedback and reinforce your new positive behaviours as often as possible. Don’t
wait for an award, promotion, a friend or mentor to appreciate your progress.
Take pride in and reward your own efforts daily. You are most certainly doing a
whole lot more right every day, than you are doing wrong. Keep up your
consistent positive efforts and you will eventually succeed.
Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Invite Harmony into your Life
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Invite Harmony into your Life: Inviting harmony into your life means that you will need to exert a little more conscious control over your habits and lifestyle. I believ...
Invite Harmony into your Life
Inviting harmony into your life means that you will need to exert
a little more conscious control over your habits and lifestyle. I believe that
if you are to truly become a fully actualised individual, you need to look
beyond the obvious, on-going commitment to lifelong learning, consistent growth
in financial wellbeing, devotion to your career or business and you need to
also engage in regular exercise, pay attention to your nutrition, relax through
musical, cultural, artistic, spiritual and family activities.
True harmony can only be achieved when all the facets in your life
are working together. It is crazy to focus all your energy on creating
financial wellbeing, whilst and at the same time you neglect your health or
family. Lying alone in a hospital bed recovering from triple bypass heart
surgery, with a massive bank balance, will most certainly not serve you. Have
the courage to explore your life right now. Are all the areas of your life
working, or are there parts of your life, which are working better than others?
You can never become fully self-actualised and live a life of meaning and
fulfilment, if you neglect any facet of your life, to concentrate all your
energies on building another.
Action Idea: Try to introduce these few crucial success tools into
your life:
- Pay more attention to your nutrition, choose leaner source protein and fibre based carbohydrates as your basic food choices.
- Schedule exercise into your week. Ensuring that you get a good 30 – 45 minute cardio workout at least 4 times a week.
- Schedule time to spend with your family.
- Make time to invest into your spiritual endeavours. It does not matter what your circumstances or beliefs are regarding the spiritual element of your life. It is just important that you do not neglect this crucial part of your life experience.
- Give yourself permission, to relax through cultural, musical or artistic activities.
- Ensure that you get sufficient sleep and that you schedule time to rest and recharge your batteries.
The above investments will serve you well and help you to
maintain, far more harmony in your life. Better exercise and improved
nutrition, will help you to have far more energy. Spending time with your family
will help build better family relationships and will see more support and
assistance flow to you from your family. As your spiritual awareness expands,
your universe will open up and your whole life experience will improve. Your
investment of time into music, culture and art will give you time to relax and
appreciate the wonders of the world. Finally by getting enough sleep every day
and scheduling rest into your week will keep you invigorated and driven.
Learn
the art of becoming a super achiever.
Super achievement is never about just work and no play. Block off
periods in your schedule for recreation and vacations and obviously include uninterrupted
periods for work, where you can focus all your energy on the most crucial priority
projects in your life. I have researched a number of the best books, works of
art, inventions and even musical compositions. All of the greatest works were
produced during uninterrupted time frames.
They could never have been produced during interrupted time frames,
where the person producing the master piece, did a few brush strokes, or wrote
a few bars, then answered their phone or read an email on their smart phone. Every
success I have enjoyed in my life, where I have produced a great audio book,
made a DVD or written a book, was done with discipline and even included twelve
to fifteen hour days of complete focus, where I focused 100 % on just that one
project.
I was able to work at that pace, because I had scheduled rest
periods throughout the day. I planned time to rest and recharge my batteries. I
made time to exercise, ate well and built time into my schedule around this
focused activity, to be with my family. This focused activity was conducted
during blocks of time, which included time to work, time to rest, recreate, recharge
and exercise.
The secret to sustainable success is to focus your energy on prime
projects during prime time and to use your innovative powers, material, time
and energy resources as effectively as possible to focus on carrying out your
goal specific activities every day. When you learn the art of effective
priority management, you invite freedom into your life. This freedom allows you
to have a far better opportunity to make more informed, higher quality decisions.
As you know the decisions you make or fail to make are shaping your future,
moment by moment.
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Small Insignificant Daily Actions, Add Up Into Sup...
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Small Insignificant Daily Actions, Add Up Into Sup...: How are things going this year, with those big dreams and goals you had earlier this year? Are you still allowing yourself to stand on the...
Small Insignificant Daily Actions, Add Up Into Super Achievement
How are things going this year, with those big dreams and goals
you had earlier this year? Are you still allowing yourself to stand on the side-lines
of your life and are you still making those small daily errors in judgement,
which are adding up into poor performance and results. Not reading 10 pages of
a good educational, inspirational or transformational book every day, does not
result in instant failure. Not using your willpower to develop a success habit
set, which will support your daily goal specific activities, has no noticeable effect
on your life either. Arriving home every night and simply flopping into the
chair, pressing the on button, to switch on the TV, feels good in the moment
and also does feel like it is negatively effecting your life either. It is the
daily accumulation of all these negative behaviours, which over time ads up to
the poor results you are currently enjoying.
Or should I rather say can add up into the success you want to
invite into your life, in the future. If you work to improve yourself by only
0.33 % every day, you will not be able to even measure the difference after one
day has passed. After three days you will be about 1 % better than you were.
This will also be pretty difficult to measure. This is why so many people don’t
even bother, it just seems like nothing is changing at all. It is only after a
year has passed and you look back that you will realise that those small daily efforts
to improve yourself, by only 0.33 %, each day, have now resulted in you being
100 % better than you were when you started, a year before.
Success or failure for that matter does not happen in a day, it is
the accumulation of great decisions in the case of success and very poor
decisions in the case of failure, carried out over time. So if achieving
success is so easy, why does everyone not just do what it takes and take those
small insignificant daily actions, which will over time result in the success
they desire. I do not know the answer to this simple question, but I do know
that we have freedom of choice and so, as easy as the actions are to do every
day, so easy are they not to do. Not carrying out a goal specific activity for
one day or even a week, does not feel like it has had any effect at all. So
people neglect to carry the activities they need to carry out every day,
instead, looking for instant gratification, in the moment.
They choose to sit and vegetate in front of the TV because that
feels good in the moment. They do not apply their willpower, encouraging themselves,
to experience a little discomfort in the moment, delaying their gratification,
so that they can achieve the results or outcomes they want. Are you going to
continue to sit on the side-lines, taking the path of least resistance and
remain trapped in an unfulfilling and empty life? Or are you finally going to
do the uncomfortable every day and gradually, over time, build the future you
desire, one tiny insignificant action at a time.
Are you finally going to be that person, who achieves their goals,
or are you going to allow yourself to remain trapped in the average. Have the
courage to finally step away from the side-lines and allow yourself to move
toward daily action. Overcome the inertia, which is holding you hostage to a
life, which you don’t want and allow yourself to do the small uncomfortable
activities every day. These tiny actions will finally bring the meaning and
fulfilment you want in your life. Success is not an event; it is the
accumulation of numerous good decisions, which over time add up into the great
outcomes you want.
Open the door on a future, where you can finally see that you are
amazing and by using the simple process of compounding your daily activity, you
will soon realise that you have few or no limitations at all. Success is never
achieved in a day; it is brought into your experience daily, with consistent
and focused effort. Dare to be different and take those small uncomfortable actions
every day. They only weigh ounces and cost almost nothing. The weight of regret
on the other hand, which will manifest in your life later, as a result of not
taking those small insignificant daily actions, weighs tonnes and will manifest
in the form of failure, bankruptcy, divorce or damaged health. I don’t know
about you, but I choose to be a little uncomfortable in the moment, to take
those insignificant daily actions and to enjoy the fruits of my labours in the
future.
Monday, June 18, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Create Your Own Vision Book or Vision Board
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Create Your Own Vision Book or Vision Board: As you travel on your journey towards the success you desire, you obviously understand the importance of having a purpose, vision, mission...
Create Your Own Vision Book or Vision Board
As
you travel on your journey towards the success you desire, you obviously understand
the importance of having a purpose, vision, mission, a set of very clearly
defined goals and finally individual goal specific actions, which you will
carry out every day. Once you have this crucial structure in place and you are
completely committed to achieving your goals. There are a few tools you can use
to support you on your journey.
Positive
affirmation is one, which helps you to overcome negative self-talk, build
belief and encourages you to engage in daily goal specific supportive behaviors
or routines, which will support your success. Another powerful support tool is visualization.
This is a process where you create a crystal clear picture in your mind of
exactly what you want to achieve in the future and then with all the emotion,
energy and conviction you can muster. You visualize yourself, living exactly
that life. Your brain is unable to tell the difference between a visualized and
a real experience. So over time as you visualize yourself living this perfect
life, you encourage the right behavior, which will support the daily goal
specific activity, necessary to invite the success you want into your
experience.
One
of the best ways to help you create the vivid pictures you want, which will
then serve as the focal point for your daily visualization practice, is a
vision board or vision book. These are simply a book or a board, which you fill
with pictures, photos or concepts, depicting exactly how you want to see your
life turn out in the future. Your vision book or board is a visual representation
of your goals and aspirations. It’s a physical book or a board, similar to a
scrap book, or a notice board (as fancy as a framed photo assemblage or as
simple as a presentation board), where you assemble photos, inspirational words
and quotes, and other items, which represent the achievement of your desired
goals.
All or One
You
can create a vision book or board that encompasses all of your goals in each
area of your life, or make several, which each illustrate one goal or one area
of focus. You may find that you want to create one for your personal life, and
another for your business-related goals, which you keep at work. Depending on
your environment, you might find it helpful to have the vision book open, on
your desk, or placed in a spot where you can see it as often as possible.
Regardless
of where you keep it, refer to it daily and whenever you need to re-focus or
re-energize yourself. The images on your vision board or in your vision book,
will help to stimulate those all-important feeling, which will help you to
actually feel and experience all the positive feel good emotions you will feel,
when you actually do achieve the success you have envisioned. These positive
emotions, which your vision board or book will conjure up, can very often help
you to overcome a roadblock or challenge, which you may encounter or if repeated
daily, inspire you to take the goal specific actions you need to take, to ensure
your sustainable success.
Guidelines for
Creating Your Vision Book
As
you create your personal vision book, remember to have fun and enjoy the
process.
It’s Your Map to Your Future
These
are your dreams, and so naturally you’ll want to be selective about what goes
in the book and how neat and organized you keep it. Look for images from
magazines, photographs, and words that best represent your dream, your purpose,
and your ideal future. Keep them upbeat and positive. As you build your vision
board, know that it is a collage of your future. Build it wisely and allow your
mind to visualize possibilities, which will stretch and challenge you.
Achievement Board
As
you achieve things on your vision board, take them off and transfer them onto
your achievement board. This gives you a way to reward your successes and a physical
representation of all the successes you have enjoyed. Whenever you feel like
nothing is working and you cannot seem to make any progress. Visit your
achievement board and use the positive feeling of satisfaction, which came with
achieving and transferring those successes onto your achievement board. This
will help you to inspire yourself and to know that if you keep taking action
daily, you will eventually succeed.
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