Strive
to hold the highest consciousness possible and aspire to surround yourself with
the RIGHT people. People that reflect the qualities you want to see in your own
life. This will help you keep your focus and energy on the business of
utilising your excellence and exposing your brilliance.
When
viewed from a spiritual perspective, people are in essence a reflection of our
inner aspirations and people that inspire you are merely people that mirror the
qualities that you are waiting and ready to express yourself.
People who Irritate you,
can be Great Teachers
From
a different perspective it is true too that people that irritate us are also a
reflection of some characteristics that we are hiding from ourselves or aspects
that we are unclear on in our own lives. So if anyone irritates you, look at
the reason that they are so challenging and see if that may be an area that
needs work in your own life.
This
is a very powerful tool that when used properly will allow you to uncover some
very real issues in your own life. The issues that you find the most irritating
in someone else is often just a reflection of a characteristic that you are
dissatisfied with in your own life.
Unlock your Greatness
Have
the courage to be completely honest with yourself and utilise this very
empowering process to unlock issues that may be keeping you trapped in
mediocrity.
When
you make this small shift in the way you view people around you. You empower
yourself to utilise the feedback from people in your environment to your
advantage.
Why do some People bug
you?
Take
a critical look at the people all around you and try to identify people that
are bugging you. Explore the reasons why they are driving you batty and record
these in your journal.
Take
a deep breath, have the courage to be brutally honest with yourself. Examine
the list again, exploring each one from the perspective of “Could this be my issue” and then see
what action is necessary to eliminate these negative characteristics from your
own life.
This
can be a very powerful success tool in your success toolkit. As you observe the
people around you, it is possible to utilse this information, to explore your
own philosophy, characteristics and attitude.
If
someone irritates you, or you find something about them extremely distasteful, try
to explore the reasons why you feel that way. It may be that they are just the
wrong people for you and they are on a completely different path to you, but it
could also offer you a great insight into your own shortcomings.
Learn
the art of understanding your responses to your world and the people in it.
This skill offers you a wonderful window into your inner self and gives you the
ability to identify areas of challenge or weakness, which you may not have
observed in yourself, had you not had the courage to see through the eyes of
those who irritate you.
Surround yourself with
the right People
It
is far easier to be inspired every day, when the people you surround yourself with,
are people who support you, reflect your values and beliefs and are on the same
track as you. So obviously, it is good practice to work to only surround
yourself with the right people.
My
invitation today is to have the courage to explore the people who you do not
want around you and to then try to discover why, you don’t want them in your
life. Once you have explored and learned as much as you can about all the
things you don’t like. Use this to examine your own life and see how you can use
this information to help you to improve and grow.
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