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Sunday, June 17, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Affirming the Correct Behavior, will bring Light t...
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Affirming the Correct Behavior, will bring Light t...: When helping individuals within corporations to work effectively with their affirmations. I remind them that they might sometimes feel res...
Affirming the Correct Behavior, will bring Light to the Dark
When
helping individuals within corporations to work effectively with their affirmations.
I remind them that they might sometimes feel resistance well up inside themselves,
when they are affirming any new behavior. When anyone in your team affirms
something, which challenges their comfort zone, they will initially feel
resistance. Their little voice will try to keep them trapped in their comfort
zone and they will try will to negate the positive change, which they are
attempting to introduce. This is a completely natural, knee-jerk reaction, but
they can learn to overcome it, if they are willing to keep repeating the affirmations,
despite the negative response from their inner self.
That
negative voice, which tries to tell them to stop as they are living in
fantasy-land, is merely natural resistance to change. The negative feelings
they will experience are the result of negative programming and an inert resistance
to be moved out of their comfort zones. The good news is that when they feel
resistance, they just need to understand that it is just a natural part of the
process and they must just learn to let go and press on with the affirmations
throughout the day, despite the negative feelings. Over time the clarity that
comes with consistent affirmation, will allow them to eventually embrace their new
affirmations and they will start to almost subconsciously carry out the new behaviors
required.
Remind
all your team members that when you start to affirm any new behavior or belief,
it is like shining a light into a very dark part of a room, there are bound to
be shadows. As they however continue to switch on the lights in the room, by continuing
to repeat their affirmations, for a period of about 60 days, the room will
eventually be completely lit. They must keep shining the light of their
affirmations into the room and switching on the lights by repeating their
affirmations and noting the negative voices and thoughts that arise. In doing
this, they are raising their automatic subconscious thought processes to the
conscious level. That’s the level where they have control.
Benefits of Encouraging your Team
Members to Use Affirmations Every Day
To
introduce affirmations which support their individual team members, to
introduce new behaviors, which are aligned with the overall vision of the team
or organization. Means a leader must first get absolute clarity about what he
or she wants to achieve, with their team or organization. This clarity will
then have to be clearly communicated to each individual team member, so that
they completely understand their individual role in delivering on the overall
vision, before any affirmation work can begin. The clarity of vision which is a
prerequisite, before any affirmation work can begin and the way this must be communicated
to everyone in the team, is the reason utilizing affirmations is so powerful.
Yes,
the affirmations encourage each team member to engage in new positive behaviors,
which support the overall vision of the team, which is exactly what any leader
wants from the individuals in their teams. The real power of affirmation
though, is found in the work required before every team member gets to the
point of understanding, where they know what new behaviors or beliefs to affirm.
As they dig to discover the new behaviors, which will support the overall
vision of the team or organization, they will get clarity of purpose and
develop a very clear understanding of what they need to do every day to ensure
their team succeeds.
Using This Clarity
to Support Performance
To
firmly place the affirmations, your team members want to introduce into their
subconscious mind and reprogram the limiting beliefs they have gathered
throughout their lives, they must make a strong commitment to repeat their
affirmations with real feeling every day. They must use repetition, association
(actually visualizing themselves in the action), and emotion to reprogram their
mind to accept the new reality or behavior they want to introduce with
affirmation.
As
they introduce these new behaviors and beliefs into their lives, it will feel
like they are turning the head of a horse to travel in the direction they want
to go. As they change their focus, rid themselves of the negative self-talk,
and reprogram their subconscious mind, their reticular activating system will
help them achieve the outcomes they want, with far less effort. The clarity and
focus from all team members, where everyone is pulling in the right direction
and everyone knows their individual role required to deliver the vision and
goals of the team, will see your teams achieve incredible outcomes. I can help
you get the clarity you need and to clearly communicate this to every team
member, so that you can begin to achieve the results you want.
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Using Affirmations to Inspire the Optimal Behavior...
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Using Affirmations to Inspire the Optimal Behavior...: The type of success you will get to enjoy in your life or business is directly affected by the clarity of your vision, how serious you are...
Using Affirmations to Inspire the Optimal Behavior in Your Team
The type
of success you will get to enjoy in your life or business is directly affected
by the clarity of your vision, how serious you are about what you want to
achieve, the quality of your goals and plans and your daily commitment to carry
out goal specific actions, which will help you to realize your dreams. You can
support your success by adding vision boards, daily affirmations, visualization,
mirroring, etc. into your daily routine. The secret to sustainable success
though, is to ensure that these supportive routines do not become the focus of
your daily success habit set.
I
can most certainly say that all my clients, who have supported their business
and personal successes, by including vision boards, daily goal specific
affirmations and visualization techniques, into their lives and businesses,
have seen remarkable improvements in the results they have enjoyed, because of
the following:
·
They have had to simplify
and clarify their vision and purpose into simple understandable phrases, which
drive and encourage the right behavior, to support both themselves and their
team members, to drive the proper daily activity.
·
This clarity makes them and
their team members more focused and determined to succeed.
·
Everyone in their teams has
absolute clarity about what they need to achieve.
·
Their vision is clear and
everyone in their teams knows their individual role for delivering on the overall
vision.
·
This clarity of vision and
purpose is regularly repeated, so it is fresh in everyone’s mind throughout the
day, week and month.
·
It is easier to track their team’s
performance and to see if the actions they are taking are aligned with the
outcome they want, as they have refined their vision into daily affirmed success
behaviors.
Yes
affirmations, vision boards and visualization techniques do help improve the
outcomes everyone within my clients teams enjoy. They are however never a
substitute for daily goal specific activity on the part of your team members.
Making Affirmations
Work for You and Your Team
The
first step, when creating affirmations for you and your team, is to ensure that
you have a crystal clear vision of exactly what you want your team to achieve.
This must then be converted into goals, which stretch your team, but must still
feel achievable to them. Break these back into projects or smaller bite size
chunks, which your team can tackle and achieve in no more than 30 days. These
projects must then be broken back even further into action lists, which contain
the individual actions, which must be performed by each team member. Explore
these individual actions and discover the type of behavior, which will support each
team member to achieve their individual projects and goals.
For example: If you are leading a team
of sales people. The overall vision may be to become the leading supplier of a
particular product or service, in the financial services industry. To achieve this,
one of the goals the team may need to achieve, would be a sales growth of 15 %
for the year. The overall goal for the team of sales people would thus be to grow
sales by a specific monetary value, within the next twelve months. This goal
can then easily be broken back, into individual goals for each sales person in
the team.
These
individual goals are then broken back further, into smaller projects, which each
sales person can achieve within the next 30 days. Breaking the individual sales
person’s goal back into smaller bite size chunks does two things. It firstly
makes the overall goal for each individual, feel more achievable and makes it
far easier to track the performance of each team member. This helps to regularly
test the results of each team member. If after 30 days someone has not achieved
a project, you as their leader can take timeously take action to see why. Each
project is then broken back into individual actions. Each sales person would
design an action list, which they would take action on daily.
This
is where visualization and affirmation now come into play. You as the leader of
the team or the individual sales person would develop an affirmation to
encourage the behavior; they need to perform daily, to support the outcome they
need to achieve. If for example they need to make minimum of 10 telephone calls
and meet with at least five prospects every day. They would develop an
affirmation, which they would repeat throughout the day, which could be
something as simple as “I am making ten phone calls a day, meeting with 5 prospects,
who know like and trust me enough to partner with me and buy what I have to
sell”
These
simple affirmations help inspire the exact behavior needed by the sales person
and have the added benefit of also helping them feel more positive when they
meet with their prospects. As you know sales is not about selling at all, it is
about developing mutually beneficial relationships with people, who can get to know,
like and trust you and your product and service. The more positive the sales
person is and the more believable and trustworthy they are, the more likely the
prospect will be to choose to utilize their product or service to satisfy their
specific need.
How Does my Team
Use Affirmations?
They
must add the expression of their affirmations to their daily routine; it should
become an integral part of their new success habit set. They can repeat their
affirmations as many times as they want throughout the day. The challenge with
this random approach is that it does not easily allow the formation of a daily
habit. I have seen the best success in my client’s team members, when they say
and feel them at least three times a day. It’s a good habit to encourage your
team members to say them when they first awake in the morning, at mid-day, and
again as they prepare for sleep. Introducing this new routine will take
willpower at first. They should help themselves to develop this new success habit
set, by setting reminders in their phones to remind them to carry out the
affirmations three times a day.
To
successfully turn this new routine into their new success habit set, they must
repeat this behavior, using alarms to remind them, for about 60 days. Research
has shown that daily routines, when repeated for 60 days, become entrenched
habits.
“Start Your Day with a Positive
Push in the Right Direction”
When
they say their affirmations in the morning, before their day even starts, they are
setting the tone for their performance throughout the day. They are reminded about
the activity they need to carry out that day, they feel more confident, focused
and driven. This allows them to start their day feeling more inspired, and determined
to achieve their goals each day. They will also be programming that portion of
their brain, which filters what they notice, to be on the lookout for any
hidden opportunities.
Re-Focus Throughout
the Day
Encourage
your team to also say their affirmations whenever they have time. If they are
waiting for a document to print, stuck in traffic, or performing a tedious,
repetitive task, they should repeat their affirmations, either out loud or
silently. Saying their goal-specific affirmations in the middle of the day
helps them to re-focus. Any time they find that they are being hard on
themselves or they feel down, because of the challenges of the day, they must
just relax and repeat their affirmations. They can teach themselves to turn the
default, pre-programmed negative self-talk, they engage in all day, into a conversation
with themselves, which is supportive and inspiring.
If
they want to accelerate their growth and their ability to achieve their goals, it
is very helpful to write down their affirmations on piece of paper frequently
throughout the day. This can be repeated at least 10 or 20 times each
day. The more often they repeat their affirmations, the faster they will
reprogram their mind and eliminate any self-negating talk and limitations that
linger within them.
The Last 45 Minutes before
Bed are Key
At
night, as they prepare for bed, repeating their affirmations is a great way to
prepare their subconscious mind to align itself with their conscious thinking.
The last 15 minutes before they sleep is extremely valuable. What they pay
attention to during the last 15 minutes; just prior to going to sleep has a
greater influence on your subconscious mind than what you focus on during the
rest of the day. This is why it is an ideal time to meditate, visualize, and
repeat your affirmations.
And
remember, your subconscious mind can’t tell the difference between what is real
or imagined, and so will spend a great portion of the night focusing on what
the conscious mind told it before it went to sleep.
Friday, June 15, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Visualization will Support you on your Success Jou...
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Visualization will Support you on your Success Jou...: Visualization is a really powerful supplemental tool, which you can utilize on your success journey, to support you to build belief, encou...
Visualization will Support you on your Success Journey
Visualization
is a really powerful supplemental tool, which you can utilize on your success
journey, to support you to build belief, encourage activity and help you to
stay focused on achieving your vision. It is by no means a standalone process,
which on its own, is going to deliver the meaning and fulfillment you want in your
life. Visualization without clarity of vision, meaningful goals, workable
action plans and daily goal specific activity is merely delusion. Once you have
mastered the art of visualization, you will have discovered a powerful success
tool to support, uplift and encourage you as you traverse the path towards the
success you desire, no more and no less.
Learn the Skills of Visualization
Visualization is one of the most
important supplemental success tools in any success seekers toolbox. It can and
will support you, as you inexorably move towards the meaning and fulfillment you
want to invite into your life. Science is proving that the mind cannot tell the
difference between an experience, which is imagined and one that is real. An event
which is imagined or recalled in vivid detail will evoke similar emotions and
an identical physical response, to those experienced, when actually
experiencing the event in real time.
Using visualization techniques, you
can completely immerse yourself in any experience, past or future, as
frequently or as often as you want. When visualizing any experience, which you
want to have in the future, your subconscious mind, will not know that it is
not real and as such you can actually experience what it will be like to live
that life of meaning and fulfillment at any time of your choosing. This is a really
powerful tool, which you can use to help you internalize any future possibility,
which you want to. Vivid internalized pictures of the future success you want
to live will make that truth both believable and achievable and eventually with
consistent focus and activity, it will become your new truth.
Remember that we are made up of
nothing more than vibrational specks of energy. When you look at anything in
the universe under an electron microscope, all you will see are flashes of
energy and huge expanses of open space. So allow yourself to you have an open
mind, for the rest of this article. One that is willing to allow it to walk
into the realm of quantum physics.
Now imagine your thoughts as merely a
vibration of energy in the quantum field. So when you visualize a future truth,
which you internalize and as stated before your subconscious mind is unable tell
whether it is real or not, you are creating a thought with a particular frequency,
at which it will vibrate. The vibrational energy that this internal truth, your
visualized affirmation, sends out, will then correspond with a similar vibration
of energy in the quantum field and the physical manifestation of that thought, which
matches that vibrational frequency, will be drawn toward you.
Or put more simply you have created an
intention, which vibrates at a certain frequency, internalized it and projected
it into the quantum field, where the power of that intention, will drive and inspire
you to do what it takes to bring that physical manifestation into your
experience.
Experience Required
Visualization is similar to
daydreaming, except it is more focused and done for a specific purpose. When
daydreaming you imagine a pleasant experience (usually to avoid dealing with an
unpleasant one). When using visualization
as a powerful tool to create a vivid picture in your mind, where you actually experience
your future goals and dreams as achieved. You will create as much realistic
detail as possible about the success you desire. Visualizing, as opposed to
daydreaming, activates each of your senses so that you see, feel, hear, taste
and smell the reality of the experience.
For Example: if one of your stated
goals is to own Holiday home in Balito Bay. In your visualization, you would actually
see yourself walking around in the house. Visualize yourself actually walking
into each room, check out what you see, in each of the rooms, explore the views
outside of the windows, smell the fresh earth outside or the perfume of the geraniums
in the lush flower garden, which you have planted outside, hear the sounds of the
waves lapping on the beach and feel the soft evening breeze off the sea, against
your skin. You might even walk the property, inspect the beach, picnic on the beach,
enjoying the serenity as you gaze out to sea, even see yourself kick-start your
scooter as you embark on a casual ride into town to buy an ice cream.
Put Yourself in the Picture
The key to utilizing visualization as
a powerful success tool is to see yourself as being as active as possible, within
the visualization. It isn’t simply a holiday home at the coast; it’s your holiday
home and you’re living in it. Don’t see everything as though it is being recorded
on a camera, actually allow yourself to be there. Move as though you are moving
around the house in the flesh. It is important to view everything around you through
your eyes, feel everything as though it is happening to you in that moment. The
more you can actually see, feel, hear and even touch things in the holiday home,
the greater the power of the intention you are able to create.
Actually see the carpet and
furnishings, feel the furniture as you relax on the leather sofa, and smell the
nourishing soup cooking on the stove. As you visualize the perfect future,
which you want in your life, allow yourself to experience all the positive
emotions, which would go with living that life. Feel the joy of accomplishment
knowing that you have earned it and it that it is exactly as you thought it
would be.
For Example: if
your goal is to ski in Switzerland. In your visualization, actually see your
ski tips as they push through the powder, feel the edges bite, and perhaps even
bounce in your chair slightly as you gracefully navigate the mogul field.
Because your mind thinks it is real, your body will react as if it actually is
taking place. And it is precisely those strong feelings or vibrations,
which will be sent out as your intention into the quantum field.
You are
responsible for all the thoughts you have and the images you create in your
mind, ensure that you only create images and thoughts, which support the
success you want to invite into your life.
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Sustainable Success Starts with Self-Belief
Andrew Horton Inspirational Speakers: Sustainable Success Starts with Self-Belief: As you know whatever you think about you will eventually bring about. It is for this reason that I recommend creating a few positive affir...
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